TO WOMEN: HOW DO YOU KNOW IF THE GUY YOU LIKE LIKES YOU TOO..

I've seen a lot of women applied all their "know-hows" in attracting guys who are the targets of their burning passionate desires.  I see nothing wrong with it, except when these women go overboard catching their "Ideal Men"..thus putting themselves on a very disgraced level...

I may have a slight prejudice against these flirt women, but on the other hand, I admire their guts. In this world of uncertainties, who knows they can be rewarded of their loathsome task at the end...Some of these women, on the brink of obsession, lose their dignity...if not their sanity. It's not easy to be a loser in the field of love, when all hopes are pinned on its success...It's so unlikely that they get what they want, instead they receive the fatal blow of unrequited love...It's not easy to face life with a devastated self ego after a rejection, with doors of hope slammed closed to their faces and a heart broken to pieces...So my advice to my colleagues in this weaker "sex division"; Be clever. Know what you want; whom you want. Know also if the guy you love also loves you...

I speak out of experience...It's best solution is to attract somebody who also loves you secretly. But your problem is to find out if this target of yours has also the same feelings for as your feelings for him. Always bear in mind, it's either he is or he is not...or worst, he might just be playing his own kind of game with you, and taking advantage of your oversweet treatment to him. Here are signs that would help determine if you're not being trapped into false delusion...

1. A guy likes you when he keeps looking at you with meaningful stares...He's sending you signal that he is attracted to you...
2. This guy makes effort to approach you, then introduces himself and asks informations about you. In doing you can tell if he has sincere feelings toward you through looking his eyes, you will know...
3. He is so much concerned of you, by sending you texts and calls you regularly, asking if you're okay...
4. He spoils you with sweet things, and gives you flowers and other gifts...
5. He cracks jokes to make you laugh..and listens to you when you're saying something, and laughs when you tell a joke, although it's not funny enough.
6. He is also generous in his praises and positive comments about you and avoids hurting you through his words and actions...
7. He offers you his help, his time and advices. He always has time for you...
8. He is not embarrassed to be seen with you by his friends, and people who know you both...
9. You will know that this guy is not interested with another woman...

If you meet a man like him in your life, it's like finding a diamond buried underneath a heap of sands...You don't need to flirt with him, you don't have to outwardly attract him...If you love him too, then maybe, you're soulmates. Don't miss the chance of letting him into your life...Sometimes, chance like this can only come to your life just once...Good luck!